The child is worse and worse to was in charge of! The child's disposition is more and more stubborn! Want to let the child so do him to slant so do! Do not want to let the child so do him to slant with your sing a different tune! Why is …… child gone against instead? Actually, method of parental education means is undeserved, also be to bring about the child to go against the main reason that turn over. 

 of ○ parents wag one's tongue

A few parents are wary the child is not obedient, relapse instead when anything crops up answer ground chatters not was over, let the child notice this a little while, let the child notice that again a little while, this wants so do, that wants so do; Some parents still like to uncover the child's sb's past when the child made a mistake, the ” of “ evil doing that goes the child breaks up completely, one by one rebuke listens to the child, have greatly do not do the child the meaning ……  of gloomy swear not to stop

Do not know, be these practices caused a lot of children go against instead! 

When the child overmuch ground was accepted when repeating ceaseless educational content, his cerebra can have natural screen to these information, namely the “ left ear that we say at ordinary times is entered, right ear gives ” . More adverse is, if the parent often uses this kind of “ to knock the education of type of wooden fish ” , the child can listen for some time too irritated, be bored, change “ coma ” child. Although he understands the parent says very justifiably, the likelihood listens not gladly also, did not gladly accordingly. 

○ parents puts forward exorbitant requirement 

A few parents consider the factor such as the child's ability, age and original basis rarely, put forward to the child blindly a few exorbitant, highbrow requirement. For example achievement of exam of child of rigid ground regulation must “ double 100 ” , before also wanting to rank in the class at least 3; Blindly requirement child learns knowledge more: Force the child to attend class of this take lessons after school today, will force the child to get on that to coach tomorrow class, all of painting and calligraphy of musical instrument chess cannot be short of …… 

These try to make sb do sth which he can't do, spoil things by excessive enthusiasm the practice of type can create enormous psychological pressure to the child. Day of with the passing of time is long, feel when the child be mentally and physically exhausted, also cannot bear again when these pressure, they can rise perhaps act to revolt with utterance. 

○ disregards apiration  of the child

A few parents go up in the scratch line to make his child is not defeated, in the future can “ becomes Long Chengfeng ” , the study content that arranging the child often follows suit blindly constantly, vie each other. …… of dancing, piano, painterly, foreign language, calligraphy threw much energy and financial capacity, but the real interest that did not consider the child truly however and hobby. 
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