Parent school
Not take a teacher to become “ weapon ”
□ Sun Fuxiang
Or else is obedient, go telling you the teacher. ”“ your or else tells sanitation to tell your teacher. ”“ your or else does exercise to phone regular meeting of teacher ”…… classics to hear the parent to speak when certainly child. Even some of parent also takes a teacher to teach to the child that has not gone to school: “ is not obedient now, waited for you to go to school was in charge of with respect to somebody, teacher but fierce! ” is apparent, the teacher became the powerful weapon that certainly child uses in certain parent hand. In fact, fact of this one practice is misgivings, because its have 2.
One of, spend from parent horn for, these speak before the child, it is a kind of irresponsible expression, mean parents to abandon to a kind when the child teachs. Letting the child feel to be before parents is to won't have ” of what “ danger, want to leave a teacher only, him whats can be done.
Ma Ka has said even Ke Ceng: “ parents is the child allow teacher. Every word of parents, every act, every eyes, invisible even inner world can give the child the effect of exert a subtle influence on. ” child behavior often “ aberrance ” , its germ can be found on parental body mostly. As parents, what should think over most is whether he make model on words and deeds, activate of the study that whether gives the child, life a good environment, whether be often “ example ” child is not “ teachs ” child, the how could of bad influence teacher that because the inadequacy of parental oneself is right,the child causes can be changed at a draught.
It is the feeling between serious effect teachers and students secondly, a few parents regard the teacher as example child ” of weapon of a kind of “ , cause the psychogenic disorder that the child studies in the school, virtually makes a kind of awe-stricken move produces to the teacher in child heart, on a kind of affection from Bei. Such they are likely wanting: Do not know a teacher when to be met like that rise in revolt; That bit of indisposition in the home also does not know to be passed in teacher ear; I can am a good student all the time in teacher eye, father mother arrives teacher there make small report, meeting change teacher is right my view, can the teacher criticize me in public in class; You tell a teacher, alarming I do not go to school today; Is the teacher so fierce really? I am flat from him far. When the student produces afore-mentioned psychology, also pulled open the distance with the teacher in the depth of the heart. Make a few children are returned even have not and teacher seek a face to generate a kind of worry, there is a kind of delicate estrangement with the teacher on the heart.
When the parent is teaching the child, thinking of a teacher is not evildoing. But ought to active and active get in touch with the teacher, choose appropriate opportune moment, use scientific and reasonable education method. Pure rely on the method such as comminatory ” of “ example ”“ to be able to not teach good child, take a teacher to cannot be taken more when “ weapon ” !